Marriage
Here are some things to consider doing. Some items may not be applicable to you.
Well before getting married:
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Be aware that approx. half of all marriages in the U.S. end in divorce
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Be aware that approx. 1 million children in the U.S. are affected by divorce each year
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Discuss the following about you and your prospective spouse:
- Your goals and dreams
- Where in the world, U.S., etc. you would like to live
- Whether you would like to have children
- How you would raise children, e.g., religion, discipline
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Consider the financial implications of getting married, e.g., taxes, job benefits
If one of you has substantially more in assets than the other, and/or, if it is not the first marriage for either of you:
- Consider a pre-nuptial agreement (be aware that suggesting a pre-nuptial agreement can create an atmosphere of mistrust, especially for a first marriage)
If you decide to have a pre-nuptial agreement:
- Each of you should be represented by a separate attorney
- Specify how assets will be handled in the event that one of you dies and the other gets remarried
After getting married:
Regularly:
- Ensure you make time to talk and listen to each other
- Ensure you have some time alone
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