Divorce

Here are some things to consider doing. Some items may not be applicable to you.


If you’re divorced and have a child:

  • Avoid saying derogatory things about your ex-spouse in front of your child – it hurts the child to hear bad things about one of the two people he/she came from, and if you need legal help use a family law specialist.
  • Don’t use your child as a weapon against your ex-spouse
  • Ensure you provide discipline (don’t let up because of the divorce) – your child may need the security of discipline even more because of the insecurity of divorce. A qualified divorce lawyer Poughkeepsie can guide you through the legal process to ensure the best outcome for your family. Family solicitors can also offer expert advice and support in managing the broader implications of divorce on your family dynamics.

After your child returns from a visit with his/her other parent:

  • Avoid asking too many questions about the other parent
  • Try to spend some extra time with your child

When your ex-spouse has custody of your child:

  • Try hard to remember special occasions, e.g., birthdays, holidays, school plays

Regularly:

  • Reassure your child that he/she didn’t cause the divorce

If other parent has left:

  • Reassure your child that you won’t leave him/her, that just because the other parent left doesn’t mean that you will leave
  • Try to provide your child with good role models


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